Tuesday, March 31, 2009

My Dream Wedding

My long awaited testimony (n_n)/


=== Prologue===


"Oh gosh, it's going to rain again," sighed my colleague. "I guess I’d better be stuck in office rather than in a terrible jam."

I looked out of my office window. Dark clouds loomed the sky above, sending thunders and lightning as messages of intimidation. Soon, rain poured, flooding the ground below with its abundance.

It has been raining cats and dogs every evening without fail. Worry began to creep into my mind. Please, don’t rain this Saturday, I whispered a prayer.

You see, this Saturday is my wedding day. Yup, someone actually wants me for a lifetime. One of the biggest days of my life. And I definitely want everything (I repeat, EVERYTHING) to be PPPPPERFECT. Oh yes, you guessed it correctly, I’m an idealist.

Moreover, it’s going to be a garden wedding. This is something I have been dreaming of since I was young. A wedding set in the beautiful lush exterior. Surrounded by blossoming pastel flowers and flourishing greeneries. The mellow composition orchestrated by little adorable birds. Me, in the most elegant white gown, gracefully marching in, as my husband-to-be gazed with anticipation. And the crowd gawked in awe and admiration.

Boooommmmm !!!

The loud thunder shook me back to reality. My mind began to be overwhelmed by worries and doubt. “Dear Lord, will there be rain this Saturday?” my heart whispered.

“It is not going to rain.” A voice, strong and peaceful yet so familiar, calmed the raging doubts of my thoughts.

“It is not going to rain.” I could hear His voice echoing again, bringing a strong sense of assurance and confidence.

“It is not going to rain.” Yes, I believed, it is not going to rain.

“Such a heavy downpour,” sighed my colleague. “You better strategized a backup plan. Looks like it’s going to rain on your wedding day.” said my colleague under his suppressed laughter.

“It is not going to rain.” I replied back with confidence.

“How sure are you?” another colleague asked.

“Positively, definitely, certainly sure,” I assured them, “It is not going to rain.”


=== Fast forward to my wedding day ===


“It is not going to rain.” I could still hear His assuring voice. So far, the day has been beautiful and sunny. Well, maybe somewhat too sunny. I was slightly worried that the day would be too hot. And so, the image of a heavily perspiring bride flashed into my mind. Gosh, I wouldn’t want my family and friends to endure such heat.

And then, off we went in a decorated MPV, my husband-to-be and I to our wedding venue.

Boooommmmm !!! Yes, the familiar sound of the horrendous thunder. And soon, the flood gates of the sky opened and drenched the ground with its downpour.

Little by little, doubt crept in aiming to overpower His assuring voice. I looked out the car window and I could only see dark clouds and rain everywhere.

Riiiinngg… my then fiancé’s bride's maid's phone rang. “Hello,” he she answered.

It was our dear friend who took role as our wedding coordinators.

“The hotel staff needs your confirmation on the wedding venue. They suggested shifting the venue to the foyer… to be on the safe side… in case it rains...”, she said hesitantly.

“Is it raining there?” my fiancé asked.

“No,” she answered, “but this entire place is blanketed with thundering dark clouds. We’re praying very hard for the clouds to away.”

“Let’s continue praying and decide on the shift later.”

And so, we prayed… and we prayed… and we prayed… “It is not going to rain.” I could still remember the assurance I received. Wait a minute. Was that my own voice giving myself false confidence? Or was it the Lord my God, the creator of heaven and earth, who will never leave me nor forsake me?

“Lord, it that You?” my heart whispered.

“It is not going to rain.” I could hear those words again.

The phone rang again. My fiancé picked up the phone. It’s my wedding coordinator again. They required a confirmation as the hotel is to set up the seats and stage.

My fiancé and I looked at each other. And we said, “Set it in the garden. It is NOT going to rain.”

“Are you sure?” my coordinator asked.

“By faith, yes!” my fiancé exclaimed. “In Jesus’ mighty name, amen!”

“Amen!” my wedding coordinator exclaimed.

“Amen!” the best man / driver exclaimed.

“Amen!” my bride’s maid, who was beside me, exclaimed.

“Amen!” I exclaimed. God said that even faith as small as a mustard seed can move mountains. What more moving clouds?

And so, we arrived at the hotel. We looked up to the sky. To our amazement, we saw the dark thundering clouds began to shift. Everyone who was there before us was astonished.

“The dark clouds came. And seated here along with its threatening thunder and lightning. And then, the dark clouds moved. And now it’s gone!” my photographer explained in amazement.

“Your wedding is the best I've experienced. I saw with my own eyes the dark clouds and thought to myself, it’s going rain cats and dogs. And then, with my own eyes, I saw the clouds being blown away.” my make-up artist awed as she did my make-up.

“The dark clouds are being blown away! Our God is all assuring and almighty” my wedding coordinator overjoyed.

And the weather was beauuuutifuuul. The dark clouds that came and gone left behind cool breezes. And the sky was big and blue. My wedding was more perfect than I’ve planned. More magnificent than I could ever dream.

And it was more than just an event. The savour of true meaning of marriage radiated. Unspeakable joy bubbled up. Our hearts was so filled with such immense love. Both my husband and I immersed ourselves in the presence of God as we make our marriage covenant.

“See… I told you it is not going to rain” I could hear His smile. He never failed to awe me again.

My wedding reminds me of one thing. That my God is bigger than I could imagine. There’s nothing too big for Him to overcome. And nothing too small for Him to ignore. Though He’s the King of kings and the Lord of lords, He’s also my faithful friend.

He loves me dearly… (by the way, if you’re wondering, He loves you very, very much too!)

Blessed assurance.

True confidence.

My hope in times of need.

Lord Jesus Christ, we thank you…


The garden (top view)


Yay! Purple ribbons everywhere!


The floral arch


Beauuuutiful pink roses


Sunday, March 29, 2009

Earth Hour

Yesterday, we celebrated Earth Hour in pitch dark. Nothing on, except for our TV (we were watching Fight Quest). It definitely a good experience, though many people believed that switching their lights off for just one hour makes no difference. It maybe be cliche or even foolish, but we truly believe that my few light bulbs off makes a difference.

Like a good friend of mine said, one baby step at a time.

If everyone thinks that their action (or lack of action) does not bring any difference to the world, then we can start saying farewell to this earth.

Shouldn't we all be good steward to this earth we're blessed with?


Official Earth Hour web site.


One of our TV channel celebrated Earth Hour by halting their programmes. Cool!!


The view of our humble abode in dark.

Friday, March 27, 2009

No to graveyard shift

Came across an article on the relationship between cancer and night shifts in The Age a few days ago and thought it's worth sharing.

What caught my attention the most is that "The International Agency for Research on Cancer placed shift work in the same category as ultraviolet radiation, anabolic steroids and diesel engine exhaust in terms of cancer risk. The agency's Dr Vincent Cogliano said changes to sleep patterns caused by working nights could lower the body's production of melatonin. "Melatonin has some beneficial effects in preventing some of the steps leading to cancer," he said. "The evidence is really no different than it might be for an industrial chemical.""
Tuesday, March 17, 2009

Save the Environment... Again??

After my previous experience of attempting to reduce plastic bag consumption (see: Save the Environment... Not!), I have NOT, am NOT, and will NOT learn my lesson. Stubborn as a mule, I pressed on to be a good steward of what was gifted to us.

So, last weekend, we went to do our grocery shopping. This time, we went to Giant. I brought along two of my eco-friendly green bags. For short, let's call my eco-friendly green bag as greenie.

As we were approaching the entrance, we noticed the guard standing on the left of the entrance. Quickly, I fold my greenies and hid them between my hubby's arm. And like a ninja, we tip-toed our way in.

Unfortunately... The guard spotted us.

>>> Transparent Mode Activating >>>
>>> 21% to Completion >>>

Guard: Excuse me...

>>> 43% to Completion >>>

Guard: Excuse me...

>>> 78% to Completion >>>

Guard: EXCUSE MEEEEEE!!!

>>> Alert!! Transparent Mode Activation Failed >>>

Me: Huh?? Me?? You're calling me?? (pretending blur)
Guard: Yes... those bags, you cannot bring them in.
Me: But we need to use it to put our groceries after we paid for them. We want to reduce plastic consumption and save the environment. (convincing look)
Guard: You cannot bring them in. You can leave them at the counter outside and collect them later.
Me: But we need to use it to put our groceries after we paid for them. We want to reduce plastic consumption and save the environment. (pitiful look)
Guard: I'm sorry... you cannot bring them in.
Me: But we need to use it to put our groceries after we paid for them. We want to reduce plastic consumption and save the environment. (pissed-off look)
Guard: The manager is inside. If he/she sees it, he/she'll get angry and scold all of us...

Ahhhh... I was right... It is really the management's idea to forbid ALL greenies to be carried in. Then, why are they selling greenies anyway?? And all those Save-the-Environment preaching??

Guard: Ok ok... like this, you stuffed your greenies in your handbag. Don't let your greenies be so obvious...
Me: Oh ok (stuffing two large, tough, hard-material, greenies into my handbag)
Guard: Thank you (smile)
Me: Thank you!! (smile, smile, smile)
Guard: Be careful, ok.


Yes, we'll be careful of the manager. But it'll be better if he/she approaches us. Then, I can get my feedback directly to them :)


My greenies, all stuffed in my handbag.


Two fully utilised greenies (n_n)/



Tuesday, March 3, 2009

I Can Cook!! (Part 2)

Another proud moment of mine (n_n)/

After several days of overdosed Kylie Kwong + Jamie Oliver + Anthony Bourdain, I came out with my own stuffed-chicken-breast-meat recipe. I do not have an oven, thus, I pan-fried it. It turned out better than I thought.

The recipe... (note: try at your own risk)

The stuffing
- Garlic (lots of them if you like garlics)
- Shallot
- Red onion
- Celery
- A bit of basil leaves
- Sprinkle of oregano
- Salt & black pepper
- Olive oil

The meat
- Breast meat - skin and bones removed. Sprinkle and rub with a bit of salt, black pepper, oregano & basil. Let it marinate for 30 min.

1. Finely chopped all the stuffing ingredients and mix them thoroughly.
2. Use a boning knife and cut open a hold in the breast meat.
3. Insert the stuffing into the breast meat.
4. Seal the opening with a toothpick.
5. Heat pan with olive oil.
6. Pan-fry the meat with medium heat, about 10-12 minutes for each side (depending on the thickness of the meat).

The sauce
- Cherry tomatoes - burst them with your fingers (gross, but fun. Please be careful not to squirt tomatoes juices everywhere in the kitchen)
- Preggo tomato sauce
- Olive oil
- Sugar

1. Heat pan with olive oil.
2. Throw in Preggo tomato sauce and squashed cherry tomatoes.
3. Add sugar to taste.


Voila! Pan-fried, stuffed chicken breast meat!


The stuffing...

Monday, March 2, 2009

Save the Environment... Not!

We went to Carrefour on the weekend to do some grocery shopping. Fueled up to do our bits to save the environment by reducing plastic bag consumption, we brought along our eco-friendly green bag (which, btw, is maroon in colour).

When suddenly, we were stopped at the entrance...

Guard: Excuse me... (pointing at my green bag)
Me: Oh... this... it's my green bag. (smile)
Guard: I need to seal it. (getting ready to seal my green bag with those little plastic seal)
Me: Seal it?!?!?!?! How am I going to use it to put my groceries when I've pay it?? (smile dying fast)
Guard: .... (thinking hard)
Me: I want to reduce plastic bag consumption. And this is my eco-friendly, green bag. (convincing smile)

Then, all of the sudden, he stuffed my green bag into a PLASTIC BAG and seal the plastic bag.

Guard: Nah... here you go... (handing to me my bag stuffed in a plastic bag)
Me: @_@"" I brought along the green bag so that I do NOT have to use plastic bag. And you're putting it into a plastic bag?
Guard: ... (ignoring me)

Gosh! I was so in shock. No offense to the guard. He's probably doing what he is instructed to do - seal ALL bags (this includes hand bags, notebook bags, paper bags, ECO-FRIENDLY GREEN BAGS, etc.), to prevent thievery / shoplifting. If that is so, then instructions should be more clear. Green bags should be allowed to be carried in for usage.

Oh ya... on the way out, I saw at the counters, they were selling eco-friendly green bags. Save the environment by using these bags? Now, can we do it if they stuff our green bags into plastic bags?

I tried to look for a suggestion/feedback box, but I couldn't find it. And we were running out of time... Nevertheless, I will definitely search for the feedback form and put this down in black and white.


My eco-friendly green bag... nicely stuffed in a plastic bag.